I have worked 5 days this week in Childcare as an Educator I have been working with the THREE YEAR OLDS which is a fun and less demandingage but you still supervise while interacting with different groups of children. I started working FULL TIME as of Monday the 4th of February 2019 thought it wouldnt happen untill the bous were at school but it has happen even quicker than I aspected which hasn’t been as bad as I thought it would be. I have actually been more productive than when I first started working when I first became a mum in 2016.
I have actually liked being the bread winner as it gives me time to miss my sons. It’s working for us so maybe we could continue like this with my partner working casually on the side to bring in a little more money to help be able to afford food, take the boys one once in a while and maybe move into a modern and comfortable house in the future as i can’t see us being able to afford anything else than what we are paying for at the moment.
But back to working FULL TIME its has given me more time to get everything done like washing, cleaning, cooking and spending time with the boys and occasionally my partner but we don’t see eye to eye on most things regarding Parenting.
I don’t know how to change his mind and make him relax and help a little bit more around the house and with the boys even though he spends all day with them during the week while im working.
Advice on getting my partner to help more and be present?